Instructions

• The adults in the family can take the lead in managing any turmoil that starts brewing. Play the role of peacemaker and separate quarreling children but don’t punish them unless it is absolutely necessary. Try and get them engaged in a new game or some fun activity or make them spend some time playing alone.
• If the entire family finds it much too depressing remaining indoors throughout the holiday season, plan a short trip right in the middle of the holidays. This is one of the best ways to escape the monotony of being at home. It does not have to be an expensive trip, maybe visiting family in a nearby town or city or spending a few days in some reasonably priced holiday home. The kids will love the change of scene and are sure to settle down.
• Plan some family time activity, everyday for 1-2 hours. This will keep the entire family occupied. Get out those board games or challenge your kids to a video game, form teams and have some fun trying to outdo each other.
• Throwing a party and celebrating is a lot of fun but it can be very stressful for those organizing it. Round up some help, especially if you have a host of relatives and friends attending it. If not, take turns organizing get-togethers. It does not always have to be at your house.
• Take a break from some of your daily chores. Do only those things that keep your home running but leave off anything else that can wait. Use this time to catch up on some sleep or reading.
• The holiday season empties out wallets faster than all the other days of the year. Added financial pressure can strain relationships within a family. Sit down and have a talk with your family and decide limits for expenditure. Ensure everyone gets to buy or do something they like so long as they stay within the budgeted amount.